‘Pistol Packin’ Mama’ Made Al Dexter a Honky-Tonk Pioneer

Pistol Packin’ Mama” made Al Dexter, who both wrote the song and sang the original recording, a household name in the 1940s. A bouncy little number about a gal who barges into a tavern looking to gun down her cheating man, it sold a million well before the year was out and also became the first country song to top the pop-music charts. It boiled out of nearly every jukebox in the nation for far too long and was covered by some of the biggest pop singers of the day, including Bing Crosby and Frank Sinatra.

His “Mama” wasn’t kidding around when she “filled him full of lead,” but Dexter sure sounded like he was having a jolly good time recording “Pistol Packin’ Mama.” Despite the bitterness and violence that burns through the song’s lyrics (“she kicked out my windshield and hit me over the head”), Dexter delivered them with a smile on his face. Then again, this was the era that produced the Three Stooges, who showed us just how funny a smack in the face could be.

Novelty tunes with a gnarlier subtext, “Pistol Packin’ Mama,” “You’ve Been Cheating Baby”— perhaps a better example of his pei-sonal philosophy (“I’m not the kind to get a gun, I’ll go out and have some fun”) – and other Dexter ditties were the middle ground between vaudeville and the grittier honky tonk that was emerging at the time. Setting “Pistol Packin’ Mama” in a tavern (Dexter called it a “cabaret”) and talking openly of (gasp) beer – drinking even caused a minor uproar. It wasn’t long, however, before such lascivious references became as commonplace as the uberpatriotism of Elton Britt’s “There’s A Star Spangled Banner Waving Somewhere” and the squeaky-clean morals of Jimmie Davis’ “You Are My Sunshine.” Like it or not, “Pistol Packm’ Mama” was a milestone.

Al Dexter was born Clarence Albert Poindexter on 4 May, 1905 near Jacksonville, Texas. He came of age during the oil boom that hit east Texas during the ’20s and ’30s, playing parties and dances for the workers and writing songs, too. He worked with an all-black dance band for a while before forming his own group, the Troopers. They first recorded in 1934 for a local label and a couple years later were signed to ARC. One of Dexter’s fii^t recordings, “New Jelly Roll Blues,” clearly showed the black-blues side of his musical influences, and was much more raw than any of his ’40s sides. Another song, “Honky Tonk Blues,” brought the term ‘honky tonk’ into the country music vernacular for the first time. Dexter himself didn’t know honky tonk from hop¬scotch until his songwriting pal, James Paris, clued him in.

Dexter first recorded “Pistol Packin’ Mama” in early 1942; it was released by OKeh in 1943 and was a smash shortly after. He followed it up with further songs alluding to guns and gals such as “Calamity Jane” (“She don’t have to pack any pistols around/she just looks at me and she mows me down”), but also recorded instrumentals (“Guitar Polka”) and sentimental songs (“So Long Pal,” “I’ll Wait For You Dear”). His 1946 hit “Wine Women And Song” was a pretty straight¬forward arrangement, but others Uke “Down At The Roadside Inn” added trumpet and accordion for an extra jazzy bounce.

Dexter’s heady chart success continued through the end of the ’40s. After his Columbia contract expired he recorded for King, Decca and Dot before forming his own Aldex label. In the early ’60s he signed briefly with Capitol, then opened the Bridgeport Club in Dallas, where he played until his retirement (he’d owned a beer joint once before in the ’30s). In 1971 Dexter was inducted into the Nashville Songwriters Hall of Fame along with Jimmie Davis, Bradley Kincaid, Tex Ritter, and others. He died in 1984.

Remembering Joe Diffie

“There’s a line there. You go too far and it’s really stupid.”
—Joe Diffie

Joe Diffie arrived on the Nashville scene when the hat acts were just getting off the ground — and a neo-trad sound was very much in vogue.

He had dabbled in Haggard-esque honky tonk, but ultimately grew more comfortable with a high-energy sound that had more to do with rock’n’roll than old-school honky tonk.

Country, however, has been part of his background since childhood. Born on 28 December, 1958 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, Diffie played gospel, rock, country and bluegrass in Oklahoma before moving to Nashville in 1986. He first won acclaim as a demo singer, his voice gracing countless cassette tapes used to shop songs to labels and artists.

This eventually led to his own recording contract with Epic Records in 1990; amazingly enough, his debut single, “Home,” shot to #1.



Many of Diffie’s songs do exhibit a traditional country foundation, especially material from his first couple of albums, A Thousand Winding Roads (1990) and Regular Joe (1992).

His third release, Honky Tonk Attitude, contained the novelty hits “John Deere Green” and “Prop Me Up Beside The Jukebox (If I Die),” and it also showed him drifting into more pop- and rock- influenced territory.

This shift became clearest of all on his fourth album. Third Rock From The Sun, his most popular to date. Diffie still included some redneck novelty numbers for which he was gaining a reputation—“Pickup Man” and “Junior’s In Love” (written by Dennis Linde)—along with straight-up rockers (“Third Rock From The Sun”) and tender ballads (“So Help Me Girl”).



Third Rock was followed by a Christmas album in 1995, Mr Christmas, which, along with standards like “Let It Snow” and “O Holy Night,” included “Leroy The Red Necked Reindeer.” Guess which one made the Top 40.

His other 1995 release, Life’s So Funny, was highlighted by yet another hit novelty tune, “Bigger Than The Beatles,” but that album and its follow-up, Twice Upon A Time, didn’t sell as well as his previous efforts.

By the late 1990s, Diffie’s hits had slowed down, but he continued to record throughout his career. In 1999 he released A Night To Remember, which included “I’m The Only Thing (I’ll Hold Against You),” a Diffie-penned song that Conway Twitty recorded just before his death in 1993.

Diffie’s albums in the new century included In Another World (Monument Records) and Tougher Than Nails (Broken Bow). He later signed to Rounder Records, and his releases for that label included Homecoming: The Bluegrass Album.

Jason Aldean name-dropped Diffie in his his song “1994,” which Diffie called an “honor.”

And speaking of 1990s country stars, Diffie later recorded an album with Sammy Kershaw and Aaron Tippin called All in the Same Boat.

Diffie passed away on March 29, 2020, due to complications from COVID-19 (coronavirus).

Remembering Joe Diffie T-shirt now available on Amazon.


This profile of Joe Diffie was adapted from the book Country Music: A Rough Guide, published in 2000 by Rough Guides.

Joshua Hedley’s ‘Mr. Jukebox’ is the classic country song we all need right now

When it comes to music, country is often a dividing line. Many love it, others hate it, and there are few on the fence.

Johnny Cash was one singer who could bridge the gap between country and rock, without alienating either side. Gram Parsons couldn’t get there. Merle Haggard didn’t even really bother trying – though he won over many rock fans eventually, just with the sheer power of his voice and songs.

Joshua Hedley isn’t aiming to bridge that gap in the same was as Cash. But his song “Mr. Jukebox” has a sort of universal appeal that few current country songs – ‘old school’ or Top 40 – have achieved. Just ask my 9-year-old daughter (who knows every word).

You just hear a song like “Mr Jukebox” and can’t help but smile. Listen below.

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Merle Haggard Looks Back

So many complex emotions in a single song. This is a quality that set Merle Haggard apart. And a big reason why his songs resonate so strongly, even many decades past when they were written and first released.

My favorite Haggard album is Someday We’ll Look Back. His 14th studio album, he released it in 1971,  just two years after the massive success of “Okie from Muskogee” and “The Fightin’ Side of Me.”

The songs here, however, are a lot more introspective and represent the wide range of material that Haggard wrote and recorded throughout his long career.

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Steve Young Remembered, from ‘Montgomery in the Rain’ to ‘Seven Bridges Road’

This week we lost of my all-time favorite country singer-songwriters, Steve Young. The writer of several classic songs made famous by some of the era’s biggest stars, Young was also a superb singer in his own right, and he has a string of excellent solo albums to prove it. On top of that, by many accounts (including my own experience) he was a wonderful man with a humble soul and a strong humanitarian streak. He also possessed lifelong ties to his Southern heritage that added richness and complexity to his songs.

Young died in Nashville, Tenn. on March 17, 2016 at the age of 73. He was in hospice at the time and under the close watch of his son, Jubal Lee Young.

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Sturgill Simpson’s ‘Metamodern’ Country

With his new album Metamodern Sounds in Country Music, Sturgill Simpson has put out what’s currently my favorite album of the year. This is country music that is meaty and fun but also thoughtful and rich. It’s ‘metamodern,’ as he describes it — a play on the classic Ray Charles collection Modern Sounds in Country Music — but it’s also got boots on the ground, a sturdy honky-tonk sound by way of Merle Haggard and especially Waylon Jennings.

At the same time, the music is not that straightforward. Stop at Waylon and I’m often fine with that. But Sturgill has a wider scope here. After all, the lead single does bear the curious title “Turtles All the Way Down.” Watch the video:

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Jason Eady shows country is alive and well in 2014

Say what you will about the directions mainstream country is taking these days, but outside the Top 40 there’s plenty of honky tonk to go around. Top of the heap right now is Jason Eady, a Mississippi native (and Texas transplant) whose new album Daylight and Dark lays down some of the strongest country music I’ve heard all year.

Daylight and Dark in many ways picks up where Eady’s acclaimed previous album, AM Country Heaven, left off.

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Robert Ellis follows ‘Photographs’ with ‘Lights from the Chemical Plant’

To call the music of Robert Ellis ‘country’ isn’t wrong, but it does miss the complexity of sounds and styles he regularly brings to his music.

The title track of his previous album Photographs stood out for its weepy melody and Ellis’s aching voice.

This year, though, Ellis has emerged with a new album — The Lights from the Chemical Plant — that’s every bit as strong, but shifts focus away from anything overtly honky tonk.

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Mickey Newbury, “She Even Woke Me Up To Say Goodbye”

One of my all-time favorite artists, Mickey Newbury had a knack for sad, slow, soulful songs that cut deep — but do so gently and thoughtfully. Newbury also had one of the finest voices in country music — a whole different style from someone like George Jones, but I would argue he was up there in that league.

Below is “She Even Woke Me Up to Say Goodbye,” one of Newbury’s finest songs. It’s a live version he performed on the Johnny Cash Show:

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The State of Mainstream Country in 2013

Even diehard mainstream country fans can’t deny that so many of today’s songs have similar themes, both melodically and lyrically. Much has been made lately of so-called “Bro Country,” with songs (sung by men, of course, who still dominate the charts) about tailgating, beer drinking, tight jeans and partying out in the country — often down a dirt road, by a river, or under the moonlight.

Nothing against beer, trucks or dirt roads per se, but things are clearly getting out of hand. Take a look at the video below that was put together by Entertainment Weekly critic Grady Smith — it makes the point pretty clearly.

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